Have you ever obsesseed about something? You are not alone. Of the earth’s 6.782 billion people there’s a good chance a few of us have experienced nearly exactly the same situation.
Has anyone ever tried to tell you "Don’t lose your dreams" while at the same time doing their best to convince you "adopt my value system" or take unsolicited advice? Maybe the two of you aren’t communicating your real concerns.
Perhaps you can use a bottlecap to rework the inner structure of an oven door handle or a clawhammer to tighten bolt heads. Custom and one-of-a-kind tools do exist.
People in the ITN Program recognize ways to share resources. We help build a just society when we collaborate.