The building blocks of love and fidelity can move mountains. Imagine life as a pile of sand deposited one grain at a time. Without glue the grains reach a critical angle of repose, the height-to-width conical ratio where instability does not support increased bearing loads. Fidelity is that quality which allows us to be faithful in our efforts. Love knows where to apply cement and when to dissolve resistance.
We may not understand clues about the chain of events leading to the present state. We might not even find answers that would have prevented things from getting messed up. If we don’t use our opportunities to make changes affecting the future in positive ways, the pain caused today will be unbearable for everyone.