Sometimes SH (s*** happens). It would be unrealistic to say all problems can be avoided. Similarly it is a lie to say Caregivers don’t encounter mistakes, disillusionment, and heartache. The important thing is to move forward and make progress. It is nice to have plans and set them into play (just don’t be too disappointed if you have to change them occasionally).
So enjoy yourself. Do things for the right reason. It is okay to fail when you acknowledge the errors which got you to that place. Next time do it better (if you get the chance).