What the Lord “can d0” for you and what the Lord actually “does” are separate things. Or is it that what the Lord “can do” and “does” are one and the same but it is us that determines the extent to which graces are received (allowed to work)?
Metaphysics anyone? Answer the question before moving on to the next issue.
What the caregiver “can d0” for you and what the caregiver actually “does” are separate things. We are the hands of God.