What’s the time-frame here? It might be easier to be nice when you are at the top of your game. But if it took much kicking, clawing, and scratching to get there – what then?
My coworker once mused, “They ought to fire me now to save all the money it is going to cost for fixing all the mistakes that I will make.”
With that kind of logic working for us we had better be nice from now on because there’s not enough opportunity to undo all the times that we’re such assholes.
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